So what is the norm? —> It’s everything that holds you back.
So what is the norm? —> It’s everything that holds you back.
So what is the norm? —> It’s everything that holds you back.
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Your Off The Norm Escape
First Off The Norm getaways launch in 2026. Real connection. Real freedom. No fluff. Want in early (and get the best rate)? Join the waitlist.
Fun & in depth trip led by Tess
Not just sightseeing: you’ll laugh, learn, and go deeper than any itinerary.
From scooters to sunsets: moments that challenge you, but leave you buzzing.
Cool activities that will get you out of your comfortzone
Small groups, big energy
No crowds. Just real connections, growth and memories that stick.
What is a getaway?
"Tess made everyone feel included, answered hundreds of questions with patience, and turned strangers into a family. The trip honestly wouldn’t have been the same without her." — Katy H.
See what people have to say about Tess
Not just sightseeing: you’ll laugh, learn, and go deeper than the itinerary.
Fun & in depth trip led by Tess
Not just sightseeing: you’ll laugh, learn, and go deeper than the itinerary.
Fun & in depth trip led by Tess
From scooters to sunsets: moments that challenge you, but leave you buzzing.
Cool activities that will get you out of your comfortzone
From scooters to sunsets: moments that challenge you, but leave you buzzing.
Cool activities that will get you out of your comfortzone
No crowds. Just real connections and memories that stick.
Small groups, big energy
No crowds. Just real connections and memories that stick.
Small groups, big energy
What is a getaway?
See what people have to say about Tess
See what people have to say about Tess
Why choose Off The Norm?
Psychologist + world traveler
The perfect mix of science and real stories from the road.
Psychologist + world traveler
The perfect mix of science and real stories from the road.
Psychologist + world traveler
The perfect mix of science and real stories from the road.
Accessible Pricing
Freedom shouldn’t be exclusive. Every getaway stays fair, transparent, and doable.
Accessible Pricing
Freedom shouldn’t cost a fortune. My sessions are priced to be fair, transparent, and doable.
Accessible Pricing
Freedom shouldn’t be exclusive. Every getaway stays fair, transparent, and doable.
Freedom, your way
No one-size-fits-all programs. You decide what “Off The Norm” means for you.
Freedom, your way
Whether it’s a session, a talk, or a getaway: everything is built around your version of freedom, not someone else’s script.
Freedom, your way
No one-size-fits-all programs. You decide what “Off The Norm” means for you.
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continents I've made & called home
5+
years of living & working “off the norm”
years of living “off the norm”
40+
countries i've travelled, lived and worked in
countries i've travelled, lived and worked n
1000+
people guided through chaos, adventure & growth
people guided through chaos & growth
Hi, i am Tess
I’m a psychologist who traded the safe route for the wild one. At 18, I left home. At 19, I was leading groups around the world. By 24, I’d already faced burnout, loss, and the kind of chaos most people never talk about.
What that gave me?
A deep understanding of why we crave freedom, why we get stuck, and what it actually takes to get unstuck.
Click through to read more of my story: the unpolished version.
I’m a psychologist who traded the safe route for the wild one. At 18, I left home. At 19, I was leading groups around the world. By 24, I’d already faced burnout, loss, and the kind of chaos most people never talk about.
What that gave me?
A deep understanding of why we crave freedom, why we get stuck, and what it actually takes to get unstuck.
Click through to read more of my story: the unpolished version.
Degree in Psychology
50+ groups guided worldwide
Published essays (Bedrock)
Talks and coaching that cut through the noise
Want to join me on a trip?
Want to join me on a trip?
Be the first to know when new Off The Norm getaways go live: and snag your spot before they’re gone.
✅ 3–7 days of adventure & connection
✅ Real talks, local culture, and off-the-norm experiences
✅ Small groups (max 12 people)
✅ Destinations announced early 2026
Be the first to know when new Off The Norm getaways go live: and snag your spot before they’re gone.
✅ 3–7 days of adventure & connection
✅ Real talks, local culture, and off-the-norm experiences
✅ Small groups (max 12 people)
✅ Destinations announced early 2026
Join the waitlist
Don't take my word for it
Don't take my word for it
If you want to know what it’s like to work with me, hear it from the people who’ve been there. Their words tell the story better than I ever could.
Don't take my word for it
If you want to know what it’s like to work with me, hear it from the people who’ve been there. Their words tell the story better than I ever could.
Why choose Off The Norm?
Why choose Off The Norm?
Why choose Off The Norm?
Want to dive deeper?
Stories that make you think, laugh, or question the norm.
Want support right now?
Want support right now?
Not just sightseeing: you’ll laugh, learn, and go deeper than the itinerary.
Fun & in depth trip led by Tess
Not just sightseeing: you’ll laugh, learn, and go deeper than the itinerary.
Fun & in depth trip led by Tess
From scooters to sunsets: moments that challenge you, but leave you buzzing.
Cool activities that will get you out of your comfortzone
From scooters to sunsets: moments that challenge you, but leave you buzzing.
Cool activities that will get you out of your comfortzone
No crowds. Just real connections and memories that stick.
Small groups, big energy
No crowds. Just real connections and memories that stick.
Small groups, big energy
What is a getaway?
"Tess made everyone feel included, answered hundreds of questions with patience, and turned strangers into a family. The trip honestly wouldn’t have been the same without her."
— Katy H.
Ready to break the norm?
Book a clarity session, join a workshop, or start with joining the community. Your choice.
Ready to break the norm?
Book a clarity session, join a workshop, or start with joining the community. Your choice.
Ready to break the norm?
Book a clarity session, join a workshop, or start with joining the community. Your choice.