So what is the norm? —> It’s everything that holds you back.

So what is the norm? —> It’s everything that holds you back.

I EN

Tess Meijer smiling while mentoring a client outdoors, embodying calm confidence and authentic connection.

One-on-One

Choose your path. Start small, go deep, or finally go all in on yourself.

Tess Meijer smiling while mentoring a client outdoors, embodying calm confidence and authentic connection.

One-on-One

Choose your path. Start small, go deep, or finally go all in on yourself.

Real freedom isn’t a hashtag. It’s decisions, habits, and a spine.
Pick what fits and let’s move.

Starter - Taste Freedom (45 min)

Starter - Taste Freedom

€79

Find clarity fast: focused mini-session

Focused mini-session (45 min)

No more spirals: cut through the overthinking

Focused mini-session (45 min)

3-step action plan in your inbox

Upgrade credit within 7 days

After payment, you’ll land on a short form so I can prepare

for your session. Once submitted, you’ll receive a

confirmation and Calendly link within 24 hours to

set your date.

After payment, you’ll land on a short form so I can prepare

for your session. Once submitted, you’ll receive a confirmation

and Calendly link within 24 hours to set your date.

After payment, you’ll land on a short form so I can

prepare for your session. Once submitted,

you’ll receive a confirmation and Calendly link

within 24 hours to set your date.

Book your clarity session

Beta - Break The Script

€179

Build momentum: 3× 60-min weekly sessions (4-week reboot)

Tailored reflections & check-ins between calls

Themes: comfort-zone, self-image, decision-making

Feedback & completion certificate

Join the Beta Round

Pro - Freedom Deep Dive

€100/pw

Deep Rewire: 4× monthly 75-min sessions

Real accountability: reviews & tools between sessions

Tailored plan: mindset, lifestyle, energy, change

Personal WhatsApp support (voice notes + direct access)

Normally €200/weekmax. of 5 active clients per month

Apply for Deep Dive

Feeling stuck between choices, expectations, and your own doubts? This call cuts through the noise. In 45 minutes, we’ll dig right into the knot in your chest and uncover why you keep second-guessing yourself. You’ll leave with one clear decision and the exact step to take next.
Includes:
  • 1× 45-minute clarity session
  • Short recap email with next steps you can act on immediately
  • Option to upgrade to a deeper program within 7 days
👉 Perfect if you’re spinning in circles and just need someone to slice through the overthinking.
Feeling stuck between choices, expectations, and your own doubts? This call cuts through the noise. In 45 minutes, we’ll dig right into the knot in your chest and uncover why you keep second-guessing yourself. You’ll leave with one clear decision and the exact step to take next.
Includes:
  • 1x 45-min call
  • A short recap with next steps you can act on immediately
👉 Perfect if you’re spinning in circles and just need someone to slice through the overthinking.
Tess sitting on an empty road with arms wide open, embracing freedom and new beginnings.

One call. One knot untangled.

Taste Freedom – €79

One call. One knot untangled.

Starter - Taste Freedom (79€)

Starter - Taste Freedom (79€)

Starter - Taste Freedom (79€)

One call. One knot untangled.

Tess sitting on an empty road with arms wide open, embracing freedom and new beginnings.

One call. One knot untangled.

Taste Freedom – €79

One call. One knot untangled.

Starter - Taste Freedom (79€)

Starter - Taste Freedom (79€)

One call. One knot untangled.

Tess Meijer & another traveler doing handstands in front of mountain peaks, representing balance, courage, and adventure.

Beta - Break The Script (179€)

Stop circling. Start moving.

Beta - Break The Script (150€)

Stop circling. Start moving.

Stop circling. Start moving.

Tess Meijer & another traveler doing handstands in front of mountain peaks, representing balance, courage, and adventure.

Beta - Break The Script (179€)

Stop circling. Start moving.

Beta - Break The Script (150€)

Stop circling. Start moving.

Stop circling. Start moving.

Tess Meijer & another traveler doing handstands in front of mountain peaks, representing balance, courage, and adventure.

Beta - Break The Script (179€)

Stop circling. Start moving.

Beta - Break The Script (150€)

Stop circling. Start moving.

Stop circling. Start moving.

Still stuck in the same patterns, even after journaling, podcasts, or advice from friends? This 4-week program is designed to break the cycle. Together we’ll tackle the habits, fears, and expectations that keep you stuck and replace them with energy, courage, and clarity.
Includes:
  • 3× 60-minute weekly sessions (4-week reboot)
  • Tailored reflections & Notion/Drive exercises
  • Ongoing check-ins between calls
  • Personal feedback and completion certificate
👉 Best if you’re tired of knowing what you should do, but never actually doing it.

LIMITED SPOTS: ONLY 179 FOR THE FIRST FOUR PEOPLE TO BOOK.

Still stuck in the same patterns, even after journaling, podcasts, or advice from friends? This 4-week program is designed to break the cycle. Together we’ll tackle the habits, fears, and expectations that keep you stuck and replace them with energy, courage, and clarity.
Includes:
  • 3× 60-minute weekly sessions (4-week reboot)
  • Tailored reflections & Notion/Drive exercises
  • Ongoing check-ins between calls
  • Personal feedback and completion certificate
👉 Best if you’re tired of knowing what you should do, but never actually doing it.

LIMITED SPOTS: ONLY 179 FOR THE FIRST FOUR PEOPLE TO BOOK.

Still stuck in the same patterns, even after journaling, podcasts, or advice from friends? This 4-week program is designed to break the cycle. Together we’ll tackle the habits, fears, and expectations that keep you stuck and replace them with energy, courage, and clarity.
Includes:
  • 3× 60-minute weekly sessions (4-week reboot)
  • Tailored reflections & Notion/Drive exercises
  • Ongoing check-ins between calls
  • Personal feedback and completion certificate
👉 Best if you’re tired of knowing what you should do, but never actually doing it.
LIMITED SPOTS: ONLY 179 IN OCTOBER/NOVEMBER 2025

Join the Beta Roumd

If your life looks fine from the outside but inside you feel restless, drained, or completely off track: this is the reset. The Freedom Deep Dive gives you me in your corner every week: no fluff, no bullshit, just real conversations, tools, and accountability to rebuild the way you live.
Includes:
  • 4× monthly 75-minute deep-dive sessions
  • Tailored plan for mindset, lifestyle, energy, and change
  • Personal WhatsApp support (voice notes + direct access)
  • Reviews and accountability check-ins between sessions
👉 If you’re ready to rebuild a life that actually feels like yours: this is it.

LIMITED SPOTS: ONLY 5 ACTIVE CLIENTS A MONTH.

If your life looks fine from the outside but inside you feel restless, drained, or completely off track: this is the reset. The Freedom Deep Dive gives you me in your corner every week: no fluff, no bullshit, just real conversations, tools, and accountability to rebuild the way you live.
Includes:
  • 4× monthly 75-minute deep-dive sessions
  • Tailored plan for mindset, lifestyle, energy, and change
  • Personal WhatsApp support (voice notes + direct access)
  • Reviews and accountability check-ins between session
👉 If you’re ready to face the hard truths and finally create a life that feels like yours :this is it.
LIMITED SPOTS: ONLY 5 ACTIVE CLIENTS A MONTH.
If your life looks fine from the outside but inside you feel restless, drained, or completely off track: this is the reset. The Freedom Deep Dive gives you me in your corner every week: no fluff, no bullshit, just real conversations, tools, and accountability to rebuild the way you live.
Includes:
  • 4× monthly 75-minute deep-dive sessions
  • Tailored plan for mindset, lifestyle, energy, and change
  • Personal WhatsApp support (voice notes + direct access)
  • Reviews and accountability check-ins between sessions
    👉 If you’re ready to face the hard truths and finally create a life that feels like yours : this is it. LIMITED SPOTS: ONLY 5 ACTIVE CLIENTS A MONTH.


Go for the Deep Dive

Tess Meijer watching the sunset over the sea, symbolizing reflection, peace, and personal growth.

Pro - Freedom Deep Dive (Founder's rate: 100€ p.w. - normally 200€ per week)

Done pretending. Time to rebuild.

Done pretending. Time to rebuild.

Tess Meijer watching the sunset over the sea, symbolizing reflection, peace, and personal growth.

Pro - Freedom Deep Dive (Founder's rate: 100€ p.w. - normally 200€ per week)

Done pretending. Time to rebuild.

Done pretending. Time to rebuild.

Why choose Off The Norm?

Psychologist + world traveler

I bring both a psychology degree and the real-life lessons from leading 50+ groups worldwide. Science meets lived experience.

Psychologist + world traveler

I bring both a psychology degree and the real-life lessons from leading 50+ groups worldwide. Science meets lived experience.

Psychologist + world traveler

I bring both a psychology degree and the real-life lessons from leading 50+ groups worldwide. Science meets lived experience.

Accessible Pricing

Freedom should be accessible, not exclusive. My sessions are priced to be fair, transparent, and doable.

Accessible Pricing

Freedom should be accessible, not exclusive. My sessions are priced to be fair, transparent, and doable.

Accessible Pricing

Freedom should be accessible, not exclusive. My sessions are priced to be fair, transparent, and doable.

Freedom, your way

Whether it’s a session, a talk, or a getaway: everything is built around your version of freedom, not someone else’s script.

Freedom, your way

Whether it’s a session, a talk, or a getaway: everything is built around your version of freedom, not someone else’s script.

Freedom, your way

Whether it’s a session, a talk, or a getaway: everything is built around your version of freedom, not someone else’s script.

3

continents I've made and called home

5+

years of living & working “off the norm”

40+

countries i've travelled, lived and worked in

1000+

people guided through chaos, adventure & growth

Tess Meijer smiling while working on her laptop, reflecting warmth, confidence, and the Off the Norm philosophy of living freely.

Meet Tess →

Meet Tess →

Hi, I am Tess

Hi, i am Tess

I’m a psychologist who traded the safe route for the wild one. At 18, I left home. At 19, I was leading groups around the world. By 24, I’d already faced burnout, loss, and the kind of chaos most people never talk about.

What that gave me?
A deep understanding of what keeps us craving freedom, why we get stuck, and what it actually takes to get unstuck.

Click through to read more of my story: the unpolished version.

I’m a psychologist who traded the safe route for the wild one. At 18, I left home. At 19, I was leading groups around the world. By 24, I’d already faced burnout, loss, and the kind of chaos most people never talk about.

What that gave me?
A deep understanding of what keeps us craving freedom, why we get stuck, and what it actually takes to get unstuck.

Click through to read more of my story: the unpolished version.

Degree in Psychology

50+ groups guided worldwide

Published essays (Bedrock)

Talks and coaching that cut through the noise

Don't take my word for it

Don't take my word for it

If you want to know what it’s like to work with me, hear it from the people who’ve been there. Their words tell the story better than I ever could.

Don't take my word for it

If you want to know what it’s like to work with me, hear it from the people who’ve been there. Their words tell the story better than I ever could.

Tess Meijer coaching a client outdoors, offering one-on-one guidance to create more freedom and clarity.

Still not sure if One-on-One is for you?

No worries: let’s figure it out together.
No waiting lists, no polished scripts. Just an honest conversation about where you are and where you want to go.

I’ve guided hundreds of people through chaos, burnout, and big adventures and trust me: freedom rarely looks perfect.

Send me a message. Let’s talk it through.

Let’s connect!

Tess Meijer coaching a client outdoors, offering one-on-one guidance to create more freedom and clarity.

Still not sure if One-on-One is for you?

No worries: let’s figure it out together.
No waiting lists, no polished scripts. Just an honest conversation about where you are and where you want to go.

I’ve guided hundreds of people through chaos, burnout, and big adventures and trust me: freedom rarely looks perfect.

Send me a message. Let’s talk it through.

Let’s connect!

Tess Meijer coaching a client outdoors, offering one-on-one guidance to create more freedom and clarity.

Still not sure if One-on-One is for you?

No worries: let’s figure it out together.
No waiting lists, no polished scripts. Just an honest conversation about where you are and where you want to go.

I’ve guided hundreds of people through chaos, burnout, and big adventures and trust me: freedom rarely looks perfect.

Send me a message. Let’s talk it through.

Let’s connect!

Ready to break the norm?

Book a clarity session, join a workshop, or start with joining the community. Your choice.

Ready to break the norm?

Book a clarity session, join a workshop, or start with joining the community. Your choice.

Ready to break the norm?

Book a clarity session, join a workshop, or start with joining the community. Your choice.