I help people who don't want a normal life, figure out what they actually want and how to build it
I help people who don't want a normal life, figure out what they actually want and how to build it
I help people who don't want a normal life, figure out what they actually want and how to build it
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Your life looks fine on the outside but something feels off.
You keep overthinking, second-guessing and calling it “being careful”..
It’s not.
It’s you being stuck.
👉 45-minute clarity session – €79
Get unstuck
Recognize yourself?
You say yes to everyone, and forget
what you actually want.
You’re scared of making the “wrong”
choice, so you freeze instead.
You secretly wonder: is this really
all there is?
You keep overthinking everything, but
never actually move
Get unstuck
Recognize yourself?
You say yes to everyone, and forget what you actually want.
You’re scared of making the “wrong” choice, so you freeze instead.
You secretly wonder: is this really all there is?
You keep overthinking everything, but never actually move
Get unstuck
You know something needs to change, but you keep going in circles.
Thinking about it. Talking about it. Waiting for the “right moment”.
Meanwhile.. nothing actually changes.
most people start here👇
Break The Script - 4 Week Reset
€249
For people who know something needs to change
Weekly calls + direct feedback
Themes: comfort-zone, self-image, decision-making
You don’t think your way out → you act your way out
Commit to change
Clarity Session - 45 min
Clarity Session - 45 min
€79
€79
ONE CALL. NO BULLSHIT. CLARITY.
ONE CALL. NO BULLSHIT.
CLARITY.
✔ walk away with one brutal insight
✔ no more overthinking loops. period.
✔ one clear next step (finally)
✔ walk away with one brutal insight
✔ no more overthinking loops. period.
✔ one clear next step (finally)
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BOOK YOUR CLARITY SESSION
BOOK YOUR
CLARITY SESSION
✔ walk away with one brutal insight
✔ no more overthinking loops. period.
✔ one clear next step (finally)
Freedom Deep Dive - Private Mentorship
€400/month
For people done with surface-level change
You don’t drift back into old patterns
Personal strategy + accountability
Personal WhatsApp support (voice notes + direct access)
max. of 5 active clients per month
Apply to work with me
most people start here👇
Hi, I am Tess
Hi, i am Tess
Hi, I am Tess
I’m a psychologist who traded the safe route for the wild one. At 18, I left home. At 19, I was leading groups around the world. By 24, I’d already faced burnout, loss, and the kind of chaos most people never talk about.
What that gave me?
A deep understanding of what keeps us craving freedom, why we get stuck, and what it actually takes to get unstuck.
Click through to read more of my story: the unpolished version.
I’m a psychologist who traded the safe route for the wild one. At 18, I left home. At 19, I was leading groups around the world. By 24, I’d already faced burnout, loss, and the kind of chaos most people never talk about.
What that gave me?
A deep understanding of what keeps us craving freedom, why we get stuck, and what it actually takes to get unstuck.
Click through to read more of my story: the unpolished version.
Degree in Psychology
50+ groups guided worldwide
Published essays (Bedrock)
Talks and coaching that cut through the noise
How it works
How it works
1. Secure your clarity session
Lock in your spot and pick a time that works for you.
2. Get clear before we speak
You’ll get a few quick questions so we can skip the surface-level.
3. We cut through the noise
In 45 minutes, we get to what actually matters.
How it works
"I'd never thought I'd leave with such a big smile and such powerful advice."
— Steph
"I'd never thought I'd leave with such a big smile and such powerful advice."
— Steph
What people say after a Freedom Session
These stories are real: from people who felt stuck, lost or drained, and decided to rebuild their lives with honesty, courage and change.
Thank you again so much for your help, Tess. I honestly don’t know where I’d be without you.
Leslie, US🇺🇸
Freedom session client
I loved it! You’re amazing at what you do: I never thought I’d leave with such a big smile and such powerful advice and tasks. I already want to book my next one!
Steph, UK🇬🇧
Freedom session client
Tess inspired me to pick myself back up: I finally feel energized and motivated again.
Branda, NL🇳🇱
Freedom session + fitness client
I found the session really educational and it was honestly a very pleasant conversation. But really: Thank you. I feel like I already learned something!"
Mark, Belgium🇧🇪
Freedom session client
How it works
"I'd never thought I'd leave with such a big smile and such powerful advice."
— Steph
"I'd never thought I'd leave with such a big smile
and such powerful advice."
— Steph
What people say after a Freedom Session
What people say after a Freedom Session
These stories are real: from people who felt stuck, lost or drained, and decided to rebuild their lives with honesty, courage and change.
Thank you again so much for your help, Tess. I honestly don’t know where I’d be without you.
Leslie, US🇺🇸
Freedom session client
I loved it! You’re amazing at what you do: I never thought I’d leave with such a big smile and such powerful advice and tasks. I already want to book my next one!
Steph, UK🇬🇧
Freedom session client
Tess inspired me to pick myself back up: I finally feel energized and motivated again.
Branda, NL🇳🇱
Freedom session + fitness client
I found the session really educational and it was honestly a very pleasant conversation. But really: Thank you. I feel like I already learned something!"
Mark, Belgium🇧🇪
Freedom session client
4
continents I've made and called home
5+
years of living & working “off the norm”
40+
countries i've travelled, lived and worked in
1000+
people guided through chaos, adventure & growth
You can keep thinking about it..
or you can finally do something about it.
Let’s figure it out together.
No waiting lists, no polished scripts. Just an honest conversation about where you are and where you want to go.
I’ve guided hundreds of people through chaos, burnout, and big adventures and trust me: freedom rarely looks perfect.
Send me a message. Let’s talk it through.
Let’s connect!
You can keep thinking about it..
or you can finally do something about it.
Let’s figure it out together.
No waiting lists, no polished scripts. Just an honest conversation about where you are and where you want to go.
I’ve guided hundreds of people through chaos, burnout, and big adventures and trust me: freedom rarely looks perfect.
Send me a message. Let’s talk it through.
Let’s connect!
You can keep thinking about it..
or you can finally do something about it.
Let’s figure it out together.
No waiting lists, no polished scripts. Just an honest conversation about where you are and where you want to go.
I’ve guided hundreds of people through chaos, burnout, and big adventures and trust me: freedom rarely looks perfect.
Send me a message. Let’s talk it through.
Let’s connect!
Latest writings
Stories that make you think, laugh, or question the norm.
4
continents I've made and called home
5+
years of living & working “off the norm”
40+
countries i've travelled, lived and worked in
1000+
people guided through chaos, adventure & growth
Latest writings
Stories that make you think, laugh, or question the norm.
Ready to break the norm?
Book a clarity session, join a workshop, or start with joining the community. Your choice.
Ready to break the norm?
Book a clarity session, join a workshop, or start with joining the community. Your choice.
Ready to break the norm?
Book a clarity session, join a workshop, or start with joining the community. Your choice.