So what is the norm? —> It’s everything that holds you back.

So what is the norm? —> It’s everything that holds you back.

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ff the Norm community celebrating freedom in the mountains — a global group for mindset growth, burnout recovery, and purpose seekers.

Stories from the road

Honest reflections on freedom, burnout, belonging, and everything in between.

One new story each month, written by Tess.

Published articles

Stories that make you think, laugh, or question the norm.

Ready to feel Off The Norm offline too?


Ready to feel Off The Norm offline too?


My Getaways bring the community together in real places.

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Meet Tess →

Meet Tess →

Hi, I am Tess

I'm a psychologist, tour guide, and writer.
I’ve spent the last years leading over 50 groups across 12+ countries, from the chaos of Bangkok to the calm of the Pyrenees.
Along the way, I’ve seen what real freedom looks like, and what happens when we lose it.

That’s why I started the Off The Norm:
a space for curious, open-minded people who want to live life the way they want to.
Here, I talk about the messy, honest side of freedom. From burnout to bold decisions, we learn how to build a life that truly fits who we are.

Because freedom grows when you share it.

1000+ people guided worldwide

50+ groups guided worldwide

4 years on the road

40+ countries visited

Hi, I am Tess

Published articles

Stories that make you think, laugh, or question the norm.

Ready to break the norm?

Book a clarity session, join a workshop, or start with joining the community. Your choice.

Ready to break the norm?

Book a clarity session, join a workshop, or start with joining the community. Your choice.

Ready to break the norm?

Book a clarity session, join a workshop, or start with joining the community. Your choice.